Hi,
I took another approach and extended your original Example with a second form (Example2) and separate Tabulator component (Tabulator_preload):
https://anvil.works/build#clone:G6FEUVSXZ6JXWOR6=BJT7MZMVNBAP6HNV22T6N373
Once I clarified the order that the components were being created I was able to sort it out.
Thanks!